“And do not be conformed to this world, but be [a]transformed and progressively changed [as you mature spiritually] by the renewing of your mind [focusing on godly values and ethical attitudes], so that you may prove [for yourselves] what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect [in His plan and purpose for you].” - Romans 12:2
Don't allow others to dump their pain, hurt, negativity or trash on you. Reverse the toxicity -dump anything that's keeping your spirit from being at peace, joyful and purpose-filled.
You have work to do!!