When you forgive you are free from the sins of that person. Do you feel freedom or are you still held in bondage to the act? Once you can feel the freedom of forgiveness you are no longer reminded daily or hourly in some cases for that matter of the hurt, you can see past the sin and truly love on this person. Prayer will give you the discernment you may need if you are in a relationship with this individual, if you need to move on and away from this person if the behavior still continues. We continue to receive what we allow.