NEVER!!!!!! Next to love, forgiving is a major part of living in peace and surviving in this crazy world. Forgiveness is FREEdom! You have the power to forgive; God has the power to change them. With that being said sometimes you have to forgive and keep it moving. Keeping it moving does not mean that you love them any less.
If this person(s) is known for taking you out of character, outside of the fruits of the spirits then this takes away from your purpose to be a light. It’s better to forgive, keep it moving, love and lead by example from a distance.